It is sad how quickly time flies when you are having fun. I spent 5 months counting down to this weekend and within a blink of an eye the weekend came and went and it was time for people to go home. Before Bhai, Bams and Kadin left, we made one last trip to feed the ducks. Despite knowing that I was going to see Kadin the next day, I was sad to see him leave. However when he desires to visit London had been replaced with a desire to go to California to see Rani Masi, I knew the feelings were not reciprocal. What can you do? I enjoyed the time that I had with him running around, singing Lady Gaga and playing cars.
Monday was a rather relaxing day for everyone. We hinted at the idea of going to the gym, going shopping, but instead the notion of playing Wii sports and blogging won. Note to self: stretch before and after playing Wii sports OR don't actually play like you are playing the real sport - haha. Every time I play I am tempted more and more to buy the Wii (I don't because I am well aware of the fact that I will stop playing after a couple of months and it will just sit there next to my Atari, Sega CD and PS2). In the evening, we all went to my Aunt's house (my Mom's older brother's wife) for dinner. It was rather surreal to be there and not have my cousin there. He sadly did not make it to ATX for the reunion due to a math conference (or some other snore fest) in LA. My Aunt out did herself with the dinner and I made fully certain to enjoy every bite I could squeeze into my system. If I could have taken food home I definitely would have asked for some.



The next day, we took Kadin to Bryant park to ride the "horses" (aka ride the carousel) and to have lunch with Bhai. One of my favorite parts of visiting home is the lunch with Bhai in Bryant park followed by my routine shopping stops. I have my visit down to a precise routine, which also means that deviating from this is unlike - and thus I wonder, "why is it that I never visit outside of Midtown?"
After dinner "Tool"took us to the Flying Saucer, a beer place in ATX, for a couple of pints. The Flying Saucer is like Sunset in Boston or Peculiar Pub or the GingerMan in NYC. May it be years in training, exposure of living in London or my knight's quest, it was rather depressing the number of beers on that list that I had. It was also very telling what beers I prefer and which I have no taste for :-) I really enjoyed my visit to ATX and spending time with my cousins. I wish I lived closer to them so I could see them more, especially now as we are all adults. I am looking forward to my visit in November to Malaysia and 2010 when "Tool" comes to London for the Olympics. My dear brothers - thank you for a lovely weekend and for making the trip worth the long journey. It was great catching up with you and celebrating your graduations. Looking forward to the next family reunion which by our agreement is "Tool"'s wedding. Remember the train does not go in reverse once it has passed a station....sorry!

I am going to skip the nightmare of Tuesday and the plane delay, changing flights, and running around ATX airport. What I will say is that when I reached my brother's place - I was surprised with a gift from Bam's via the hands of Kadin. I had been given a day of pampering: haircut, mani/pedi, massage and eyebrow threading. It was such a nice surprise and touching gift to receive. It felt a bit odd going from place to place where they knew that I was on a pampering tour of NYC. It was like my little own scavenger hunt!! It was an extremely special and touching day. It was the perfect blend of pampering, mother-daughter time and some much needed alone time in the spa catching up on American trash magazines and enjoying some dry fruits and ginger tea.
To top off my pampering day, I cooked dinner for the family. Sounds counter-intuitive, but cooking is definitely something I enjoy doing. What topped the day was that I got to try a new dish out. For a starter I made steamed shrimp in old bay, For entrees I made seared scallops with balsamic vinaigrette sauce for Mom and Bams and beef stroganoff for Bhai and I. For dessert, I was supposed to serve pound cake with strawberry and whipped cream, but we got to wrapped up in the finale of American Idol and it was too late after the show aired to prepare dessert. I honestly could not have asked for a better welcome to NYC. Cooking in my brother's kitchen made me realise two things (1) I am too short to reach half of his spices and (2) I should get married soon if only to get a new cookware set ;-)
After lunch, Mom and I went to Best Buy to have my camera checked out. Mini suffered from a dead battery being stored in the camera for too long and thus needed help. Just my luck, my 2 year warranty that I purchased expired the day before :-) Rather gutted by all of this, Mom did her magic and bought me a new camera as a mini 30th birthday present. Gana is the newest addition to the ever growing camera family. Given my affinity for self portraits, this camera is truly the perfect fit and the best way to kick off the birthday celebrations.
That evening was the long awaited and planned out SATC 2 premiere with my NYC girls. Two years ago, I had the pleasure of seeing the SATC all dressed up with my girls when I lived in NYC and just as it was meant to be, I was going to be in town to watch SATC2 opening night in NYC. What more could you ask for? I can think of a couple (1) coffee before the show as I feel asleep during bits of the movie and (2) the full size jacket as the A/C in the theatre was as Arctic levels and I had to seek refuge in Bams jacket for warm. For those who have not seen the movie, I will say save the money and rent it on DVD. The movie is called Sex and the City....CITY being New York City. It is the fifth character of the movie and its absence in SATC2 is clear and the movie leaves you wanting. If you are looking for a good RomCom that happens to star the four leads from the Sex and the City show, then this is your movie.
It is Fleet Week in New York. It is tradition starting in 1984, where New York City honors and host dozens of U.S Marine Corp and Navy troops. It is week of celebration, parades, and for the common girl it is a chance to see the city filled with hundreds of men in uniform (gigidity).
Friday was the long anticipated 30th Birthday celebration in NYC. Claimed nearly 7 years ago, Bams threw me a party that was beyond my expectations. Granted as I was flying in for the festivities, I knew the date and time and was previewed to the guest list. What I did not know was the location or details of what was going to be a truly enjoyable and memorable night.
Surrounded by my close family and friends, the New York Thirty and Flirty celebration was truly a night to remember (even if I don't remember much after the third old fashion - rsrs). The night was filled with catching up with friends, laughing, dancing with Kadin, flirting with the Marines (hence the cap) and truly letting go and celebrating the evening. It was a grand and well planned night with family and friends. I truly am blessed to have a family that would arrange for such a touching night and for friends for making me feel like no time had ever passed since I had moved. Reflecting back on the evening, I wish I took more photos and did not switch to old fashions (there is a high correlation between the two).
Whilst living here I have made my own circle of friends who are very much my family here in London. When I go back to NYC as much as we pick up where we left off, a part of me feels as though I don't know them anymore. I know the overall plot of their lives yes, but I am not there for the day-to-day events and vice versa. In the past two years we have all gone through so much - we have fallin in and out of love, had children, found new jobs, graduated from school...we have all lived our lives in our own separate ways. The key and the true definition of friendship is that when we are together we return to status quo. It is like no time has gone by.
Thanks to the NYC free pour and choice to drink old fashions, I was in suffered from a rather painful hangover. That said, the show must go on. After a Daniel's bagel and coffee it was off to the LMAO Jima to visit Marine Ben (who we all met the night before at my birthday celebration) for a tour of the ship. Not the ideal way to spend the Saturday, but it was a nice day with the family and something new. For my brother and I, it reminded us of the day when Mom would take us to the Schenectady Airport for the Air Show. We would wait for hours in traffic just to see the planes and helicopters. Back then, they were just massive toys to play with. On Saturday I imagined Ben and his fellow Marines going to war in these ships and planes - 40+ soldiers packed into the vehicles as they travelled to protect our country. I may not believe in war and fighting, but I do have respect and am extremely thankful for the men and women who honor our country.
For my last day in NYC, we all went out to enjoy my last hours on holiday. It was a rather typical NYC day with 85+ degree weather which was a bit too much for my body. Nevertheless, it was off to Union Square for the afternoon. We started with a shopping spree at Best Buy. I struggled not to buy everything that I wanted, but did add some CDs and an iTouch (though I am not allowed to open it until the GHF is at the appropriate balance) to the basket. From there it was to the Coffee Shop for brunch and a properly made bloody mary :-) Sadly the afternoon flew by and before I knew it was time to head to the airport for my flight back to London.
I can hardly believe that my holiday is over. How I wish I had more time to enjoy my friends and family. Every time I come I leave thinking that the visit was not long enough. The unsettling bit is that I leave this time not knowing when next I will return. I was supposed to be back in November for the marathon and Kadin's 3rd, but as that is no longer happening, I have decided to take my sabbatical during that time and am going to India/Malaysia. I don't think I can bear watching another marathon to be honest.
Hope you all are well. It has been a rather long post, but there was much to write about and if you can believe it, I have left many things out. Did not think you truly wanted a full play-by-play of the visit. To my family - I miss you truly and sincerely.
xoxo
T




